Self Growth

Relationship Compatibility – Is your guy too slow?

RELATIONSHIP GOING TOO SLOW…

You know, that when you look at this carefully – there is a big advantage in the man that is not too fast; often, that implies stability – often in the two areas of emotion and finances. That is not a bad scenario to start off. Underneath the surface, that often means that you get to be dynamic and can exhibit your whirlwind personality.

He won’t be competing with you for attention. Not a bad deal, right?

This guy may not be dashing enough for you to brag about, but you may find the above a good trade off.
Now, the disadvantage with this slow fellow is that this type takes forever to make the first move. So, you may have to tamper down your expectations a bit.

So, here we get to determine just what is important, and what is not. If you are hoping to commit within a short time frame – he may not be right for you.

On the other side of the coin, these types of guys are usually pretty happy for you to lead on – in many different levels.
A common problem – is when a woman is in a relationship and has been in it for quite a while – say six months or longer and no real moves for any kind of commitment have been made.

You can look at other aspects of his life:

• How long has he been in the same job?
• Does he like routine, and doesn’t make any hasty decisions
• Is he moving up in life slowly but steadily?
• Is he a planner, but a doer when the time is right?

You know all of these things are important for you to know. Some you can live with and actually live quite nicely in the confines of a routine type of existence. And, also a man with a slow, deliberate approach can be quite a pleasure in many ways; He’ll take the time to get you where you want to go.
Last point, it is a fact that most men actually secretly yearn for commitment and marriage.

But now, with the knowledge of these basic facts as you become aware of them – and with some extra knowledge – you might take that yearning and turn it into a real true primal need for you.

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Who knows, there may be more there than meets the eye!

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